Dentists suck!

I am looking forward (NOT) to oral surgery,on the 26th. I have to get 15 teeth extracted and some bone filed down. Fun!!!!!! But thank God,I will be totally sedated during the whole thing. But,I have been in so much pain,I've been needing some "assistance". At least until the procedure is over with. It is the worst at night. It keeps me from sleeping and I have a 3 1/2 year old,to contend with,during the day. The other day,my dentist told me to go to his office AAAALLLLLL the way past downtown,past UTEP,35 minutes away from post. Just to find out,that they didn't have my script. So,we had to go AAAALLLLL the way back home and wait for the dentist to call me,about my script. He finally called me and told me to meet him at other office. So, we had to go to the other side of town and get examined again,before I FINALLY got my damn script. Now I have 5 days,until the surgery. Lets see how this goes.....
More later,the kids are home from school.
-Jai 

Why I write this blog

 I thought when I started writing this blog,that I was writing it,to get stuff off  my chest. But,I realized last night,that I am speaking for all the real Army wives out there. This job,isn't like the glamorous TV show. It's late days,lonely nights,single moms,deployments and so much more crap that goes with it. But,most of us wouldn't trade this life for the world. Our men our special and we knew what we signed up for. I know,I'm proud to be a Military wife. Many of us are.I realized,last night,that our story was not being told the way I would want it to be. So,I guess, I'm going to do it myself. I hope I do my fellow wives justice. Because we are so much more than wives and moms. We are women first. So I plan on my blog being a lil out there,but always 100% real. I hope ya'll enjoy it and keep coming back for more.
-Jai

East Coast,I miss you the most

 It's been awhile,since I've blogged. I've been so busy! Of course,the kids and the hubby keep me on my toes,but I've been back and forth to the dentist. On the 26th,I have to get some oral surgery done and will be out of commission,for awhile. I'm so pissed about it! Not just the fact,that I hate the dentist,but all the money we have to pay to get it done,I wanted to use to go back home. I have been so homesick,lately. I mean,it's cool that i have the opportunity to see a different part of the country,but there's nothing like home. It's so brown here. Everything. Is. So. Brown! There is nothing green. I miss trees and flowers and frogs and water and snow. I miss everything about the east coast. The fact that i can't go back home makes me so mad!!!! I really miss my family,too. The think that sucks the most is my uncles (whom I'm very close to) are getting older. They are in their 70's. i want to spend as much time with them as possible,for obvious reasons. The next time I will be able to go see them,will probably be next year. It doesn't help,that i don't really care for this place. I haven't made many friends here,the drama is redic and there is really nothing to do. Also,If you've read my first post,the schools leave a lot to be desired.
 The positive news is that Joshua got the Kid of the Month award,last month. Yay,Ju-Ju Bear! I'm so proud of him,that kid is on the ball. As a Mom,I know i tend to be bias....But,my baby is pretty awesome. The only sucky part,is that we had to take pictures with the principal. Her face looks so botoxed,I call her "Plastic Fantastic". They also spelled his name wrong,on his folder. How do you spell Joshua wrong? They spelled it,"Joshusa". Mo-mos....But,I'm still thrilled with my baby. Malakai has also been doing better in school,too. We have been working so hard with him,on his self esteem. His Nannie had a long talk with him. I don't know what she told him,but it worked! I'm so happy,he feels better about himself. His attitude had me torn,for so long. Now,he comes home so happy,telling me about the good grades he's getting. Yay,Kai-Kai!I FINALLY also got Roman potty trained. After trying forever and his constant resistance,he's got it together.I thought it would never happen. Thank God!!!!! Yay,Romie! So,even though I'm homesick and miss everyone,everything seems to be looking up. That's all I have for now,but I plan on posting 2 more post,today. One,about my baby sisters first haircut and one about my new nail designs. but here are some pics of Ju-Ju's award assembly.
Later,
-Jai